Ways to Get Through a Contested Divorce

 Posted on August 28, 2025 in Family Law

When two spouses cannot agree about the terms of a divorce, it is referred to as a contested divorce. Resolving a contested divorce can be a trying task, especially if the marriage ended on bad terms. To navigate the process as efficiently as possible, consider working with a Llano, TX family law attorney.

At the Law Office of Russ Alan Baker, PLLC, we can go over all of your options to get through a contested divorce. Attorney Baker is skilled in negotiation, but he also has a successful history of litigating intense cases on behalf of his clients. You can rely on our firm to provide you with steadfast representation and counsel through your divorce.

Three Ways to Resolve Your Contested Divorce

Mediation

At the outset of a contested divorce, the courts will often order a couple to attend mediation first. While some may scoff at the idea of trying to resolve things amicably, this approach has some serious merits. 

Mediation is conducted outside of court in a neutral location. The meeting is overseen by a third-party mediator – but do not think of the mediator as a judge. The mediator has no power to make rulings, and will only offer suggestions to help you and your spouse compromise on the terms of your divorce.

The major benefit of mediation is its efficiency, both cost-wise and in total time spent. Compared to a full divorce trial, mediation is often over and done with in less time, incurring fewer legal fees along the way. However, if you have an abusive or narcissistic spouse, trying to negotiate may not be productive.

Arbitration

If a compromise is not possible, you and your spouse might turn to a third party for a binding judgment. Arbitration allows you to do exactly that. Arbitration differs greatly from mediation, and in structure, it more closely resembles litigation. 

When you and your spouse enter into arbitration, you will both have the opportunity to state your case before a third-party arbitrator. To support your case, you can bring in evidence and witnesses for the arbitrator’s consideration. After hearing arguments from both sides, the arbitrator will make a decision, which is legally binding if you have both agreed to binding arbitration (Texas Family Code - FAM § 6.601).

Arbitration is more informal than litigation, serving as a less expensive alternative in most cases. As a certified arbitrator, Attorney Russ Alan Baker can help you reach a swift resolution to your contested divorce. He can also represent you as your attorney if you would rather use another arbitrator.

Litigation

Many couples turn to litigation as a last resort when other methods prove ineffective. At the Law Office of Russ Alan Baker, PLLC, we can make extensive preparations for your court appearance, building a case for a fair and just outcome on your behalf. We will fiercely advocate for your rights, empowering you with our extensive knowledge of the law.

Contact a Llano County, TX Contested Divorce Lawyer

Going through a contested divorce can feel like fighting an uphill battle. At the Law Office of Russ Alan Baker, PLLC, we are here to ease your burden with quality counsel and representation. Call our Llano, TX family law attorney at 325-216-2006 to schedule an initial consultation today.